How Some Young Adults Build Traps That Keep Them Locked to the Couch

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Dr. Drew Rubin

It is easy for many young men and women to build a trap that keeps them locked on the couch and not able to move out and live independently.

When this happens, it’s even harder for them to break out on their own than it was before, so parents should encourage their children to set themselves up for success instead of building traps. However, the proper professional assistance can usually help people break the traps they’ve built and become successful, fully-functioning adults.

Getting your son or daughter the help they need to move out and get a job is difficult, but the change can be made if you find the right facility. New Directions has been assisting men and women for many years who are struggling in these areas, so call with any questions at 1-877-763-5102.

Why It’s Difficult to Leave the Nest

The security that moving back home offers teens who are moving into adulthood can be very tempting, because the idea of leaving their familiar home is a pretty daunting one. That is why so many teens these days have been succuming to the easy option and returning to their parents’ couch. However, moving back home at all can serve as a trap, because once it has happened, it is that much harder for men and women to gain the momentum to start out on their own. Once they have experienced the comfort and security that accompanies being supported by their parents, they will be tempted to keep this arrangement. It can be scary to go out on your own and risk failing, so it’s understandable that they are apprehensive about it. When young adults move home and build the trap of comfort, it ultimately makes their futures even more difficult, so it’s important that they recognize this.

Finding Help with New Directions

Solutions for these problems can be found through assistance at New Directions. We offer the Direction Therapy CMT approach, which means every one of the young adults who we treat gets an individualized plan with therapy, counseling, life management skills, etc. If you are interested, please contact us today.